Poem for October 2020

This poem, a pantoum, is in memory of Rick Vick, a wonderful, community spirited man of Stroud and fellow poet who died a year ago.

Lost to winter

The cyclamens, the small, pink clump of them,

delicate blooms in the rough autumn verge,

put me in mind of Greek Islands,

which in turn bring to mind your stories.

Delicate blooms in the rough autumn verge,

then passing the top of town poodle parlour,

in turn bring to mind your stories of loving,

living, dreaming on an Aegean paradise.

Passing the top-of-town poodle parlour

I recall your delicate teaching of poetry.

Was living and dreaming on an Aegean paradise

how you found the rhythms held in words?

I recall your delicate teaching of poetry

finding through your gathering of souls a place

where the rhythm held in words

flourished and acceptance grew like flowers.

Finding through your gathering of souls a place,

a community where to create is to breathe

to flourish, and acceptance grew like flowers

whose fading is no broken line, rather stories gone to ground.

A community where to create is to breathe

in exchanges that nourish our blooms

whose fading is no broken line, rather stories gone to ground 

like Cyclamen graecum, small, pink clumps of them.

Coaching Conversations: Episode 3

In this episode Jane James, coach, coaching supervisor and educational catalyst talks with me about working with a systemic lens.

As other methodologies of coaching and leadership development seem to reach a ceiling in terms of how much they can achieve, this methodology, which taps into the invisible, the unseen, and something of the unconscious, is proving to be beneficial.

Our conversation covers the history of applying a systemic lens in organisations and the ‘orders’ – or principles – which provide a framework for the approach. The conversation is enriched with examples from Jane’s depth of experience to illustrate how this approach reveals otherwise hidden dynamics in organisations and teams to leaders.

Since recording the conversation, which took place before the Covid 19 Lockdown, Jane has finished writing her book, Families: revealing the hidden dynamics of parenting. She has also teamed up with fellow coach Nick Clitheroe and Mike Malig Group Director of nowhere to co-found Meeting Life as a Creative Adventure. This online programme teaches future leaders how to nurture and harness their innate creativity, how to thrive in uncertainty and lean into creating the unfolding future together.

Jane’s book can be purchased through her website.

If you enjoyed this episode do subscribe through my website or via your podcast host.

Mentioned in the podcast

Families: revealing the hidden dynamics of parenting written by Jane James, published November 2020.

Jane James’ website is https://janejames.co

Meeting Life as a Creative Adventure is: https://www.meeting-life.co.uk/

The Field, by Lynne Mctaggart, published by Element, 2001

Systemic Coaching and Constellations, by John Whittington, published by Kogan Paul, 2012

Bert Hellinger, who died in September 2019, wrote extensively about the family constellations, the approach that he developed. https://www.hellinger.com

Judith Hemming, Moving Constellations http://www.movingconstellations.com

The Centre for Systemic Constellations https://www.thecsc.net

The Whole Partnership, founded by Ed Rowland https://www.wholepartnership.com